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Build Capital That Survives the Sun

Build Capital That Survives the Sun

Most of us stack our lives on ice — and then freak out when the sun shows up. Last week, driving along the South Western coast of Turkey, I saw this line slapped across the back of a truck:

“Sermayesi buz olanın korkusu güneş olur.”

Roughly: “For those whose capital is made of ice, the sun becomes their greatest fear.”

Couldn’t stop thinking about it. I mean, it’s true. Brutally true.

The Truck That Stopped Me Mid‑Thought

I was tailing this truck for a few minutes, stuck behind it on a narrow road. Sunlight bouncing off the sea, music low in the car — and suddenly this sentence just hit me. At first I laughed — you know, Turkish truck driver wisdom. But the longer I stared at it, the more I felt… called out.

If your foundation is fragile, life doesn’t even need to throw a punch. A little heat is enough. The sun will always come. The world won’t change for you — so maybe what you’ve built on needs to.

Ice Always Looks Solid… Until It’s Not

Ice feels reliable when it’s cold. It shines, it holds its shape. But the second things warm up, it’s gone. People do this with their lives all the time: careers that vanish when trends shift, relationships built on approval, confidence that depends on other people clapping. When that melts? They panic. I’ve seen it. I’ve done it.

The Stuff That Actually Lasts

Real capital doesn’t melt. It’s skills you can use in any country. Health you protect daily, not only when there’s a problem. Friends who pick up the phone at 2 AM. Values you refuse to trade away even when things get ugly. This stuff takes forever to build — years, sometimes — but it doesn’t evaporate when life turns up the heat.

Flexibility Beats Stiffness

A big mistake: thinking resilience is about staying rigid. It’s not. The strongest people I know aren’t unbreakable; they’re flexible. They bend, they adjust, they get knocked down — and then they stand up quicker than most. That’s the real game.

You Can’t Build It During the Crisis

By the time the sun’s already burning, it’s too late to start freezing water into ice — or steel, for that matter. Preparation has to happen in the quiet days. Save before the layoff. Learn before the change. Care for your body before the doctor warns you. Build the safety net before you fall.

Was This a Sign?

Here’s the part that’s been stuck in my head: Why did I see that truck? Right then, right there. Am I missing something? Am I as resilient as I think, or is my capital… ice in some places? Honestly, I’m not sure yet. But I’m taking it seriously. I’ll sit with it, look at my habits, adjust where I can. Life throws these signs. Either you notice them — or you don’t.

Never 100% There

None of us will ever be fully resilient. There’s always some weak spot, some crack in the armor. But each time you replace a piece of ice with something stronger — every skill, every friendship, every small daily habit — the sun gets less scary. That’s enough.

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